It has been a while since I posted a blog and I thought what perfect way to express myself and share my thoughts openly, as opposed to writing in my journal tonight.  This evening I went and saw my accountant  and in the midst of our meeting, we started talking about relationships, men & women. Why is it during the times when we need to talk the most or communicate the most in a relationship, we shut down, therefore pushing the other person away.  Shutting down neither solves the issue but deepens the hurt, and pushes the other person away.   In relationships there will always be ups and downs, good times and challenging times. Men and Women have to be committed to sticking it through and being open and willing to be vulnerable and accepting of each other.  There was a moment in time when i thought that people gave up on love too easily but that is not true. The truth is that there are many, many couples who are in it for the long haul and are truly committeed to making their relationship work and I am convinced..that one of the primary keys in a long, lasting, fulfilling relationship for life is committment. 

Tags: , committment, love, relationships

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