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Embrace Being Out of Place

Sunday, September 17th, 2017

Over the course of my life, I have often felt “out of place”.  It wasn’t that I was socially awkward, but I never really felt like I fit in even amongst my peers. Growing up as a child, I was somewhat quiet, except around those that I felt comfortable with and trusted. I could always discern and still can discern people who have good intentions and those who do not. As a child, I was too young to understand or even comprehend why I felt that way, or why a settle nudge would commence, as soon as someone walked in the room that caused the energy and good vibes to drain from the atmosphere. As I moved into my teen years, I wanted to fit in, so I ignored those feelings, which sometimes led to unfavorably consequences, lost friends, and bad decisions. As I got older and I started to become closer to God and the holy spirit, I began to understand what discernment was and how even as a child that was one of the gifts and ways the holy spirit speaks to us. It was by God’s love, self-love and acceptance, I began to not only embrace who I was and not feel so awkward.  Fast forward to today, I still feel out of place at times, however I am more comfortable in my skin and in knowing who I am. I recently met a woman, who shared her concern of not fitting in or feeling out of place at an event we both attended. My initial reaction was “Seriously, why? ”  Then, I realized, I’m not the only one who feels this way and I will not be the last. I have come to realize that everyone is in their own story, dealing with their own perspectives on life, and we are pretty much all out of place and misfits in some shape, form, or fashion, and that is okay. For me, being conscious and aware of these feelings, and embracing it is all good with me.  

Fitting in allows you to blend in with everyone else, but being different allows you to be yourself, to be unique and to be more creative” Sonya Parker

Take The High Road

Sunday, February 9th, 2014

Have you ever had someone betray your trust, talk behind your back, or wrong you in anyway? At one time or another, we have all have had someone do or say something that went against what we would consider “loyal” or “nice”. Was it a friend, co-worker, partner, or spouse? Your initial reaction may have been to confront the individual, curse, or completely drag their name through the mud. An eye for an eye, right? Not necessarily.  Have you ever heard of the term “take the high road”? If someone hurts you, puts a dagger in your back, or betrays you, in many cases, it’s best to let that individual bring themselves down vs. you seeking revenge. Someone once said “In the long run the person who wronged you, or talked about you, has undoubtedly done it to other people – and the negative energy they have expelled will come around full circle”. Bottom line, keep doing the right thing and life will work out for you and your integrity will be intact.  Lastly, remember you cannot control the actions of other people, or what people say, but you can control how you respond to it.  Make it a daily habit to “take the high” road, stay focused, and keep away from people with toxic thoughts and negative energy.

 

Don’t follow society’s values like sheep. You know if something is ethical by considering if you’d like it done unto you.

 

Bet On YourSelf

Thursday, January 23rd, 2014

Touchdown!! These are the words that we hear when a team scores a “point” during football or kicks the ball into the field goal (is it obvious I’m not into football). At any rate, all bets are on a specific team to win, and each distinct play brings the team closer to winning or further from it. How does this compare to your life? Better yet, how does this compare to the choices that you have made about yourself? Each distinct choice that you have made whether it was big or small says “I’m betting on me” or “I am betting against me”. To put it in simple terms, you either believe in yourself and your dreams or you don’t. For once in your life bet on yourself and believe in you. A couple of years ago, when I fresh out of college, I had started consulting for a small company and during one of my meetings, one of the guys said to me “Remember to toot your own horn, and applaud your successes, because if you don’t, no one else will”. Well, betting on yourself is simply saying “Yes” to you, your dreams, and life. You only live once and it serves no one to play small and play against yourself, allowing life’s mishaps, and temporary setbacks to win.  To bet on “you” takes courage, “gusto”, and it involves risks but at the end of the day, you will be living life based on your terms, dreams, wants, and desires, instead of living someone else’s. It is time to bet on you, love.

“To be a champ, you have to believe in yourself, even when no one else does” Sugar Ray Robinson


 
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